Reclaim the Power
You’ve Been Giving Away
Hi !
It’s not easy to take an honest look at where you might still be blaming others or circumstances for how life feels right now.
It can show up:
+ in what you say to and about others,
especially in times of stress
+ your body tightening up when you don't like what's happening
+ what you consciously believe
+ and very often, what you unconsciously believe.
Sometimes it’s subtle...frustration at a teammate, a coach, a partner, or even
yourself.
Sometimes it’s louder...that thought of, “if only they would change, things would be better.”
But that’s the trap.
When you believe others are directly responsible for your state of being and what's happening to you, you hand over
responsibility, you hand over your power.
In our latest episode of The Beautiful Mind in the Beautiful Game, Chris Wehan and I talk about the cycle of martyrdom, the quiet way we slip into victimhood and how growth begins when you step out of that cycle.
We talk about how the false-self seduces you into playing small, how blame feels safer than ownership, and how to find your way back to presence, even when the pull to project outward is strong.
It’s not easy work.
For some, it's much easier to sit in a cold plunge than to face truths about themselves.
But it’s the work that changes everything.
If you’re ready to look at where you can take fuller responsibility for your own energy, choices, and growth, this
conversation will meet you there.
By the way, this is the exact type of empowering information in my program, Raising Resilient Athletes.
