Making sense of the road ahead, road you're on, or the road behind you

You've probably heard of the term mid-life crisis and you're likely either heading to that point, in that point, or just out of it.

I understand the power of mentors and a support system and hope I can be that for you in this newsletter.

I have a birthday this week and feel as if the last five or so years were monumental in my growth and development and I was thick in the middle of this...

"mid-life crisis", or I prefer to call it a "mid-life reset".

What I came to realize for myself, and at the same time know I was not alone, is that this stage of life, which can vary for everyone from the mid-30's through the 40's,

is that it is a natural time for individuals to come face-to-face with and deal with their "false-self" and how it shows up:

arrogance
self-deprecation

greed

self-destruction

martyrdom

impatience

stubbornness

You, just like everyone out there, including myself, have two primary "dragons" and they usually run the show without you being aware.

Recognizing them so you can pivot when they get behind the wheel is the work to do during this phase.

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Experiences, such as relationship issues, illnesses and ailments, professional issues, etc. will happen and be magnified in order for you to take a hard look at yourself.

If you are not aware of this, it leads to this idea of "crisis".

Some people distract themselves, such as the stereotype of...
 

buying sports cars, 
rupturing relationships and finding younger partners, and 
engaging in more risk taking behaviors.

It's really easy to fly blind during this time unless...

you are prepared and...

are able to be radically honest with yourself.

The level to which you can come face-to face with yourself depends on how safe you feel facing the truth—without shame, without blame, just the willingness to grow and evolve.

It's easy for your ego to take a major blow and you can wilt like a flower begging for water.

It's easy to see why some would avoid this.

But, if you take personal responsibility for your behaviors and actions, you can grow exponentially and if not, you won't.

You will stay in crisis mode and your physical and mental health will be impacted.

It's as simple as that.

I personally decided to go into the deep end and recognize where I was out of integrity with myself and others.

Having compassion and forgiveness for myself has been crucial, just like it is for you.

Having a great support system of a coach, therapist, and a spiritual advisor has been monumental as has...

focusing on what's healthiest for my body, mind, and energy.

The results have been unbelievable.

I feel more empowered and confident than ever and operating from my heart more than I realized I could.

I live with less fear,

more trust

more patience

more presence 

and balance between doing and being.

I want to help you do the same.  

Whether it is a private session with me (I'm offering one session at a time now) or

one of my programs, please feel free to reach out to me with any questions you have or to schedule a free 20 minute Clarity Call.

Here again is the coupon code for Father's Day that is good for $20 off the price of Raising Resilient Athletes, good until June 15!

Enter this code upon checkout- 

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